The First Text
The first text message should always relate in some way to the first time you met the girl in person. A text message is always your second impression. Try and relate the message to a funny or interesting theme from your last conversation with her. You should also introduce who you are if she might not know your number.
After She Responds
Hopefully she will respond to your message positively. You made it interesting and erred on the side of funny, right? Good, so now it’s time to start building attraction. In order to do this, you must keep being interesting. Take your time and respond with something witty again. The best part is you can take awhile to think before you respond. You don’t have to come up with something immediately. In fact, it’s better not to respond right away as you want to make her think you’re a busy guy. You have a lot of other things going on in your life.
Be Short and Funny
I think this is the most important tip. If you make a funny comment or reply if you will.. only write back the funny comment and skip the rest. I’m going to give you an example.
Let’s say she text’s you “Hey, my girlfriends just called and they wanna go out Saturday, do you wanna come too? Btw, if it’s raining can you bring an umbrella when you pick me up” Just comment “Oh I knew, you were high maintenance 🙂 ” – Nothing else. This is just an example, but this keeps the text chat interesting.
Text Messages only for Fun Topics
Keep flirting with her by calling her names and teasing her via text. These types of messages are more likely to illicit a response. If you’re not being challenging for her, she’ll stop answering. Also, it’s good to drop subtle sexual hints. Text messages are only for fun. I have had it happen many times, that a woman misjudged my sarcasm and we got off on the wrong foot. You can implement a lot of great smileys in text messages, and while that is great this is only for fun. Use the phone for serious subjects, so you can use voice tone.
Don’t text her AGAIN
Don’t text her again before she’s replied to one of your messages. While sometimes sms game can go really fast. Like when your on the bus or train and she’s doing nothing. Accept it when she’s suddenly not replying. And wait for her to reply don’t ever send her a message saying “Hey you still there ??” Preferably, be the one that suddenly not replies. And when she says “hey you still there” reply with “What? you were out of credits, want more [yourname] time ? Buy me a drink”
Text messaging can be a lot of fun, but in the end you want to meet up. Work towards that. Text her to give you a call tomorrow, so you can get on the phone and pick a date.
Alternately, Tell her that you’re going to a house-party or out to do something interesting with some friends if she wants to “tag along.” Tell her you need to buy some clothes and she should come help you do some shopping. The opportunities are endless. Just don’t ask her to go to an Italian dinner where she’ll be stuck with you for hours at a time. Make it loose and pressure free.